Numbers Don’t Lie.

The 1-1 Parenting Principle was developed over a period of three months. In those first 12 weeks, new techniques were developed that further strengthened The 1-1 Parenting Principle. As you can see from the data I collected in the chart below, the time and amount of opposition from my twin boys rapidly decreased in a short amount of time. By the third month, the level of their opposition to me decreased to close to nothing.

In the first 4 weeks, my twin boys argued or didn't listen 360 times per week on average. That's 1440 micro-arguments in one month! At the end of the 12-week period, my boys averaged only 30 micro-arguments per week, which is only 120 micro-arguments per month. That's a 92% reduction of their opposition to me!

My boys have maintained even lower levels since that time. After only 3 months of using 1-1 Parenting Principle, I was able to "retire," and have not counted out minutes since then. Today, I continue to enjoy a deeper and closer 1-1 relationship with my boys.

LEARN The 1-1 Parenting Principle

FIRST MONTH RESULTS:

• Arguments at an average of 360 per week / 1440 per mo.
• Consistent reduction in micro-arguments
• My boys quickly learned  natural consequences
  
• My stress begins to lessen
• More confidence in 1-1
• I begin to relax in my personal restoration time

SECOND MONTH RESULTS:

• Significant reduction in micro-arguments
• Arguments reduced at nearly 50 percent
• Arguments at an average of 195 per week / 780 per mo.
• 46% decrease in opposition through 8 weeks
• My boys accepted this as the new way of life
  
• My boys started to trust and respect me more
• My boys started accomplishing tasks more efficiently
• I was a lot more rested
• I was a lot less stressed out
• More confidence in 1-1

THIRD MONTH RESULTS:

• Dramatic reduction in micro-arguments
• Arguments reduced at more than 50 percent from the previous week
• One week of zero arguments
• Arguments at an average of 30 per week / 120 per mo.
• Overall 92% decrease in opposition over 12 weeks
• My boys strove to do things for our family in order to have freedom & autonomy
• My boys learned to respect my wife and I more
• My boys think about the consequences before they take action
• I was able to get a lot more things done each day
• Our family did more fun things together
• Our family has more meaningful memories
• Full confidence in 1-1
  
• Retired from using 1-1 after a total of 3 months